Ukuphelisa ubudlelwane nomntu owakhe wabelana naye ngexesha lokuzonwabisa kunzima, nokuba uziva njani emva koko.
Ukwahlukana kube nzima, kukushiya unxunguphele kwaye ulahlekile, ngakumbi xa utyale intliziyo nothando lwakho.
Ukukunceda ngeli xesha linzima, siqulunqe ingqokelela yeengcaphuno ezibamba iimvakalelo onokuthi ubenazo. Ezi zicatshulwa zihambelana nentlungu, zikhuthaza ukomelela, kwaye zibonelela ngentuthuzelo njengoko ujongana neziphumo zokwahlukana.
Ukuthandana kunokuba nzima, kwaye xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle, iindlela zokwahlukana kuphela kwendlela kwaye akulula. Akukhathaliseki nokuba ulwalamano lwathabatha iiveki ezimbalwa okanye iminyaka eliqela—ubunzima obungokweemvakalelo bubalulekile.
Njengoko uzama ukuphilisa kukwahlukana, ukufunda izicatshulwa ezibonisa iimvakalelo zakho okanye ezikukhuthaza ukuba uye phambili kunokuba ngumthombo wentuthuzelo.
Nokuba ufuna isicatshulwa esichaza ngokuchanekileyo iimvakalelo zakho okanye i-Instagram caption ehamba neposti yakho, kukho iingoma ezininzi kunye neengcaphuno ezifumanekayo zokucacisa oko unokufumanisa kunzima ukukuchaza. Ukusuka ekuphakamiseni ukuya kwintlungu kunye nokuhlekisayo, phonononga le ngqokelela yezona ngcaphuno zibalaseleyo zokwahlukana ezihambelana nayo yonke into oyivayo.
Best Breakup Quotes
- "Ezinye izinto ziyaphula intliziyo yakho kodwa zilungise umbono wakho."
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sicebisa ukuba nangona kukho intlungu yamava athile, anokukhokelela ekukhuleni komntu nasekubuqondeni ngokucacileyo ubomi.
- Akukho nto ibuhlungu njengokuphoxwa ngumntu obucinga ukuba akanakuze akuvise ubuhlungu. - Gugu Mofokeng
- Ingcaciso: UGugu Mofokeng uvakalisa intlungu enzulu yokungcatshwa ngumntu ebesikholelwa ukuba uya kusoloko esixhasa. Ichaphazela ukuba sesichengeni sokuthembela kubudlelwane.
- “Awuphumi kuqhawulo-mtshato ulambatha. Ukwahlukana kufundisa isifundo. Fumana eyakho.”
- Ingcaciso: Ukwahlukana, nangona kubuhlungu, kunikela izifundo ezibalulekileyo. Isicatshulwa sisikhuthaza ukuba sicamngce ngamava kwaye sikhuphe ubulumko ukuze siqhubele phambili kwikamva.
- "Musa ukubambelela kwimpazamo ngenxa yokuba uchithe ixesha elide uyenza."
- Ingcaciso: Ukuvuma utyalo-mali lwexesha kubudlelwane, esi sicatshulwa siyasibongoza ukuba sikuphephe ukuqhubela phambili impazamo ngenxa yexesha elityaliweyo. Ikhuthaza inkalipho yokuziyeka.
- Andinamona xa ndibona umntu endandithandana naye nomnye umntu, kuba abazali bam babesoloko bendifundisa ukunika abantu abangathathi ntweni izinto zam zokudlala.
- Ingcaciso: Ehlekisayo, esi sicatshulwa sibuyisela imbono yokubona umntu omtsha nomntu omtsha, egxininisa ukubaluleka kokuqhubela phambili ngobabalo noburharha.
- “Musa ukuvumela umntu ongalufanelanga uthando lwakho akwenze ulibale ukuba uxabiseke kangakanani na.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sigxininisa ukubaluleka kokuzixabisa kwaye siyalumkisa nxamnye nokuvumela umntu ongafanelekanga ukuba acuthe ixabiso lakhe.
- “Wathandana noqhwithela. Ubucinga ukuba uza kuphuma ungenawo nomkrwelo?” - UNikita Gill
- Ingcaciso: Isicatshulwa sikaNikita Gill esizekeliso sifanisa uthando nesaqhwithi, silumkisa ukuba ubudlelwane obunomdla buhlala buza nemingeni kunye nemiphumo.
- “Sukulila kuba kuphelile. Ncuma kuba ekugqibeleni uyingxaki yomnye umntu.”
- Ingcaciso: Ukufakela uburharha kwinkqubo yokwahlukana, esi sicatshulwa sicebisa ukufumana isiqabu novuyo kwinto yokuba umthombo wosizi awusenaxhala lamntu.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Abantu abakhawulezayo ukuhamba ngabo abangazange bajonge ukuhlala."
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sokwahlukana okuhlekisayo sibonelela ngombono odlalayo kwabo baphuma ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane, kuthetha ukuba abazange bazinikele ngokwenene.
- Ukuqhawulwa okuhlekisayo Isicatshulwa: "Uyijeli kwibhega yam, imela kwisuphu yam, ukumenyezela kwisushi yam, kunye neketchup kwi-ayisikrimu yam. Ingongoma yam kukuba, awunaxabiso.”
- Ingcaciso: Sisebenzisa uthelekiso olungekho ngqiqweni, esi sicatshulwa ngokuhlekisayo sigatya ixabiso laloo mntu kuthethwa ngaye, sisebenzisa impoxo ukuze sihlangabezane nokwahlukana.
- "Kufuneka sithathe ubudlelwane bethu sibubeke kwinqanaba langaphambili."
- Ingcaciso: Umdlalo ohlekisayo wamagama, esi sicatshulwa ngokuhlekisayo sicebisa ukubuyela umva kubudlelwane, kuqaqambisa ubudenge bokuzama ukuhlenga ukuqhubela phambili kwayo.
- I-Quote ye-Classic Breakup: "Ukwahlukana kuya kuthetha ukuba wayeyintombi yam. Yayiyintombazana engumhlobo wam ngoku oyintombazana engeyotshomi yam.” - USheldon Cooper, IBHAYIBHILE ENGINGQI
- Ingcaciso: Indlela esengqiqweni kaSheldon yokuqhawula umtshato igxininisa ngokuhlekisayo inguqulelo esuka kubuhlobo ukuya kukungabikho konxulumano.
- Kungcono ukungatshati ngomgangatho kunokuba uphulukane nemvume yakho.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sikhuthaza ukugcina imilinganiselo yobuqu kunye nengqibelelo, nokuba kuthetha ukuhlala ungatshatanga, kunokuba ulalanise ukuze ufumane imvume yabanye.
- “Ubudlelwane, ndicinga ukuba, bufana nokrebe. Kufuneka iqhubele phambili rhoqo okanye iyafa. Kwaye ndicinga ukuba into esinayo ezandleni zethu ngukrebe ofileyo. " - Alvy Singer, Annie Hall
- Ingcaciso: Isifaniso sika-Alvy Singer sigxininisa imfuneko yokukhula okuqhubekayo kubudlelwane, ebonisa ukuba ukudodobala kunokukhokelela ekubhubheni kwayo.
- I-Quote ekhuthazayo yokwahlukana: "Ayizizo zonke izaqhwithi eziza kuphazamisa ubomi bakho. Abanye beza ukulungisa indlela yakho.” —Paulo Coelho
- Inkcazo: Isicatshulwa sikaPaulo Coelho ilungisa ngokutsha ingqikelelo yezaqhwithi, icebisa ukuba eminye imingeni ayiyomiqobo kodwa ngamathuba otshintsho olulungileyo.
- “Ngamanye amaxesha, ndiye ndingazi ukuba yintoni eyona nto indikhathaza ngakumbi. Iinkumbulo zakho ... okanye umntu owonwabileyo endandikade ndinguye. " - Ranata Suzuki
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sichukumisayo sibonakalisa umzabalazo wangaphakathi phakathi kweenkumbulo zobudlelwane obudlulileyo kunye nokulahlekelwa ngumntu owayesakuba ngumntu.
- “Awubulawa yintliziyo eyaphukileyo. Unqwenela ukuba wenze njalo.”
- Ingcaciso: Ebonisa ubunzulu bentlungu engokweemvakalelo, esi sicatshulwa sibonakalisa ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zentliziyo ebuhlungu ngoxa sivuma amandla okunyamezela.
- “Enyanisweni, sithandwa sam, andikhathali.” — URhett Butler, Uhambe Nomoya
- Ingcaciso: Umgca we-iconic kaRhett Butler osuka ku-“Gone With the Wind” ubonisa ikhefu eliqinisekileyo, ebonisa ukungakhathali kumntu owayesakuba ngumthandi.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "I-ex yakho ekucela ukuba nibe ngabahlobo emva kokwahlukana kufana nabaqweqwedisi abakucela ukuba uhlale unxibelelana emva kokukuvumela ukuba uhambe."
- Ingcaciso: Sisebenzisa uburharha, esi sicatshulwa sihlekisa ngengcamango yokugcina ubuhlobo nomntu owayesakuba naye, ukuzoba umfanekiso ohlekisayo kwimeko engalindelekanga.
- "Ndiya kuhlala ndizixabisa iingcamango zam zokuqala ngawe."
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicaphulo sivuma ngokudlalayo utshintsho ukusuka kwiimbono ezinqwenelekayo ukuya ekuqondeni okuyinyani ngakumbi kobudlelwane.
- “Umkile. Wandinika ipeni. Ndimnike intliziyo yam, wandinika usiba.” -Lloyd Dobler, Thetha nantoni na
- Ingcaciso: Imbono ka-Lloyd Dobler ye-quirky malunga nokwahlukana ngokuhlekisayo igxininisa ukutshintshiselana okungahambelaniyo kwezinto ezivakalelwa.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ubudlelwane bethu bufana nemeko yam yezemali: yaphukile."
- Ingcaciso: Kusetyenziswa ulwimi lwezemali, esi sicatshulwa sihlekisayo sifanisa imeko yobudlelwane nokungabi namali, sisongeza ukuchukumiseka kokwaphuka.
- "Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka sibe ngabantu abangaziwayo abangcono."
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sibonisa ukuba ukuzikhwebula kubudlelwane obungaphumeleliyo kunokukhokelela ekukhuleni komntu, ukuguqula into eqhelekileyo kwinto engaziwayo.
- "Ukuba ndifuna ukuba nguSenator, kufuneka nditshate noJackie, hayi uMarilyn." -Warner Huntington III, ngokusemthethweni Blonde
- Ingcaciso: Ingxelo kaWarner ibonisa oko kulindelwe luluntu kunye nolangazelelo olubotshelelwe kubudlelwane, ukuzoba ukuhambelana okuhlekisayo kunye nabantu abadumileyo uJackie Kennedy kunye noMarilyn Monroe.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Kuzo zonke iimpazamo zam, ubuyeyona mpazamo."
- Ingcaciso: Ukufaka uburharha ekuzibonakaliseni, esi sicatshulwa sidlala sivuma ubume bempazamo ebonwayo kubudlelwane.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ukuba ukhupha u-L kwisithandwa, kuphelile." - IiMotele, "Thatha i-L"
- Ingcaciso: Lo mdlalo wamagama usebenzisa ukususwa konobumba “L” ku-“lover” ukubonisa ukuphela kobudlelwane, ukongeza i-twist yobuchule kwisibhengezo sokwahlukana.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ndenze umdaniso omtsha. Kubizwa ngokuba yiHave on with Your Life.” -Sky Corrigan, Superstar
- Ingcaciso: Indlela yokuyila ye-Sky Corrigan yokuqhubela phambili iboniswa ngokuhlekisayo njengomdaniso, okhuthaza imbono ekhaphukhaphu kubomi basemva kokwahlukana.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Iiroses zibomvu. IiViolets zibhlowu. Inkunkuma ilahliwe nawe ngokunjalo.”
- Ingcaciso: Olu lungelelwaniso lwesihobe luhlekisayo luthelekisa isiphelo sobudlelwane nokulahla inkunkuma, sisebenzisa isatire ukubonisa ukugxothwa kweqabane.
- "Ngaba ukhe ube nesithukuthezi, ucinga ukuba ungaphila ngaphandle kwam?" -Halsey, "Ngaphandle kwam"
- Ingcaciso: Ingoma kaHalsey ijongana nobulolo obunokuthi buvele xa umntu eqonda impembelelo yobudlelwane ebomini babo.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ndifuna ukuba urhoxise umrhumo wam kuba ndiyigqibile imiba yakho."
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sihlekisayo sifanisa isiphelo sobudlelwane nokurhoxisa umrhumo, sicebisa umnqweno wokuzikhwebula kumthwalo weemvakalelo zeqabane.
- "Idlulile. Nceda uphume kwisikipa sam sikaVan Halen ngaphambi kokuba udlale iqela lomculo kwaye bohlukane. - URobbie Hart, uMvumi womtshato
- Ingcaciso: Isicelo esihlekisayo sikaRobbie Hart sidibanisa ukuhlukana neenkolelo ze-jinxing, engeza i-twist ehlekisayo ekupheleni kobudlelwane.
- “Andisakuthandi. Sala kakuhle." — UAlice Ayres, Ngokusondeleyo
- Ingcaciso: Ukuvalelisa okuthe ngqo kuka-Alice Ayres kufaka ukulula kunye nokuphela kokuphelisa unxibelelwano lothando.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ndisenokuba ndalila xa undishiya, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ndahleka xa ndibona ukuba undishiyele bani."
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sisebenzisa uburharha ukujamelana nentlungu yokwahlukana, ukufumana ukuzonwabisa ekukhetheni iqabane elitsha.
- “Ayinguwe, ndim. Ekugqibeleni ndiye ndabona ukuba awundifanelanga.”
- Ingcaciso: Umgca wokuqhawula iklasi unikezelwa ngokujija ngokuvuma ukuba isithethi siye saqaphela impembelelo eyingozi yobudlelwane kwintlalontle yabo.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ngaba uyalwazi ulwimi lwezandla? Kaloku uyagqibela nini ukuva ngam.”
- Ingcaciso: Lo mdlalo wamagama ukrelekrele ngokuhlekisayo ucebisa ukuba kupheliswe unxibelelwano ngokubhekisele kwintetho yezandla, ngokutofa into yokudlala kukwahlukana.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Andizukudlala i-sap." — USam Spade, uFalcon waseMalta
- Ingcaciso: Ukwala kukaSam Spade ukuba neemvakalelo ezihlekisayo uyakhaba ingcamango yokudlala "incindi" okanye uthando olungenangqondo kwimeko yokwahlukana.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ngaba uyi-ankile? Kaloku akukho nto uyenzileyo ngaphandle kokundicinezela.”
- Ingcaciso: Kusetyenziswa ulwimi oluzekeliso, esi sicatshulwa ngokuhlekisayo sifanisa iqabane neankile, siqaqambisa umthwalo ocingelwayo kubudlelwane.
- I-Quote ye-Funny Breakup: "Ngenxa yokuba xa ndikubukela usitya, xa ndikubona ulele xa ndikujongile mva nje, ndifuna ukukubetha ubuso bakho." -UBarbara Rose, Imfazwe yeeRoses
- Ingcaciso: Indlela uBarbara Rose athetha ngayo ephoxekile ibonisa uburhabaxa beemvakalelo ezingakhiyo kulwalamano olusilelayo.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ndifumene i-puddles enzulu kunawe."
- Ingcaciso: Olu thelekiso luhlekisayo lubonisa ukuba kwanamanzi amdaka anzulu ngakumbi kunobunzulu beempawu zeqabane, esongeza ukuchukunyiswa kwentliziyo ekhanyayo kukwahlukana.
- Isicatshulwa sokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Enkosi, ngokulandelayo." -Ariana Grande, "Enkosi, Ngokulandelayo"
- Ingcaciso: Ibinzana elixhobisayo lika-Ariana Grande ligxininisa ukubonga ngamava kunye nokulungela ukuqhubela phambili kwisahluko esilandelayo ebomini.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Bathi inkunkuma yendoda enye bubutyebi bomnye umntu. Ndiyathemba ukuba uza kumfumana umntu okuxabisileyo.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sisebenzisa intetho eqhelekileyo ukuhambisa umnqweno wokuba iqabane lifumane umntu olixabisayo, lisongeza inguqu entle kukwahlukana.
- Isicatshulwa Sokwahlukana Okuhlekisayo: “Ukwahlukana kwethu kwakungenxa yeyantlukwano zonqulo. Wayecinga ukuba unguThixo. Khange ndi."
- Ingcaciso: Ngokuhlekisayo inxulumanisa ukwahlukana “kukwahluka ngokonqulo,” esi sicatshulwa ngokudlalayo sibalaselisa ukuzicingela ngokugqithiseleyo kweqabane.
- Isicatshulwa sokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ndizibiza ngokuba nguHan kuba kufuneka ube nguSolo."
- Ingcaciso: Lo mdlalo ukrelekrele wamagama ubhengeza ukuzimela ngokuhlekisayo ngokubhekisa kubalinganiswa abadumileyo uHan Solo kunye noSolo.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Uzibiza ngokuba ngumoya okhululekileyo, into yasendle. Woyika ukuba umntu uza kukufaka ehokweni. Kulungile ke sana, sele ukuloo ndlwana. Uzakhele ngokwakho.” - UPaul Varjack, isidlo sakusasa eTiffany's
- Ingcaciso: Ukujongwa kukaPaul Varjack ngokuhlekisayo kucel’ umngeni umntu ozibiza ngokuba “ngumoya okhululekileyo,” ebonisa ukuba umntu sele evalelwe kukhetho lwakhe.
- “Andinaxesha okanye iikhrayoni zokukucacisela oku.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sicaphula ngokuhlekisayo sidlulisela ukuswela umonde okanye ukutyekela ekuchazeni imeko entsonkothileyo, sisebenzisa isafobe seekhrayoni ukugxininisa ngokulula.
- I-Quote ye-Classic Breakup: "Nceda ungakhohliswa ngu-Adele. Soze umfumane umntu onje ngam.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sidlala ngobuchule kwingoma edumileyo ka-Adele, ebonisa ukuba umntu wahlukile kwaye akanakutshintshwa ngokulula.
- “Andifuni magama nje. Ukuba yiloo nto kuphela ondibekele yona, kungcono uhambe.” - F. Scott Fitzgerald, Omhle kunye noDamned
- Ingcaciso: Isicatshulwa sikaF. Scott Fitzgerald sigxininisa ukubaluleka kwezenzo ezinentsingiselo kubudlelwane, ukugatya ukubonakalisa uthando oluphezulu.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ngaba ungusomajukujuku? Kuba ndifuna indawo.”
- Ingcaciso: Lo mgca wokuchola ohlekisayo wajika ucaphulo lokwahlukana ngokudlala usebenzisa ingqikelelo yokufuna indawo kubudlelwane.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Inja yam inamantshontsho kwaye kufuneka ndithathe unyaka ukuze ndiwaqeqeshe ukuba ahlasele umfanekiso wakho."
- Ingcaciso: Esi ngxengxezo singekho ngqiqweni siyabaxa imfuneko yekhefu, songeza into yokudlala kwinkqubo yokuphelisa ubudlelwane.
- Isicatshulwa sokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Uwela ingqondo yam kuphela ngoLwesine ekuseni. Yimini endikhupha ngayo inkunkuma.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sihlekisayo sisebenzisa umsebenzi oqhelekileyo ukubonisa ngokuhlekisayo ukunqaba kweengcinga malunga neqabane langaphambili.
- "Asinakuze, siphinde sibuyele kunye." -UTaylor Swift, "Asisoze sibuyelane"
- Ingcaciso: Isibhengezo esiqinisekisayo sikaTaylor Swift sibamba isigqibo sokuphelisa ubudlelwane kunye nokuzinikela ekungabuvuseleli kwakhona.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Uxolo, kubonakala ngathi ndiphulukene nenombolo yam yefowuni, ungenza okufanayo?"
- Ingcaciso: Olu tshintsho luhlekisayo lomgca wokuthatha lusetyenziselwa ukucebisa ngokuhlekisayo ukwahlukanisa unxibelelwano.
- I-Quote yokwahlukana okuhlekisayo: "Ndikuxolele ngokunyanisekileyo ngokundilahla. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu onencasa egqibeleleyo.”
- Ingcaciso: Esi sicatshulwa sihlekisayo sitshintsha imbono yokulahlwa, sicebisa ukuba incasa ye-dumper isenokungafezeki.
Funda kwakhona: 30 iMicromanagement Quotes kunye neNkcazo yazo
Iingcaphuno ezihlekisayo kwi-breakups
1. I-Unique Take ye-Zsa Zsa Gabor kwiDayimani: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Andizange ndiyithiye indoda ngokwaneleyo ukuba ibuyisele iidayimani zayo." - Zsa Zsa Gabor
Ngaba wakha wacatshukiswa ngumntu kangangokuba wacinga ngokumbuyisela izipho zakhe ezixabisekileyo? Amazwi achuliweyo kaZsa Zsa Gabor abonisa ukuba akazange adelele nabani na kangako. Khawube nomfanekiso wakho uthiye umntu kodwa usabambelele kwezo dayimani ziqaqambileyo akunike zona.
2. Ukujonga Uthando ngeNtliziyo eNcedayo: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Andisayilandeli intliziyo yam. Ihlala indinika imiyalelo embi.”
Ukuthatha isigqibo sokuyeka ukulandela intliziyo yakho kunokuvakala kungaqhelekanga, kodwa esi sicatshulwa sibonisa ukuba ngamanye amaxesha iintliziyo zethu ziyasilahlekisa. Yiba nomfanekiso wentliziyo yakho njengeGPS enobuchule bokukuthabatha kwindlela engalunganga. Ukuyilandela kusenokungasoloko kuyingcamango engcono.
3. Isilumkiso sika-Adele ngokuZifihla: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Nceda ungakhohliswa nguAdele. Soze umfumane umntu onje ngam.”
Ilizwi elinamandla lika-Adele lihlala licula malunga nentliziyo ebuhlungu, kodwa esi sicatshulwa sicebisa i-twist. Ilumkisa abanye ukuba bangakhohliswa ngamazwi ka-Adele ngokweemvakalelo, njengoko ukufumana umntu onjengesithethi kunokuba yinto engenakwenzeka.
4. Ukuba Nobulumko malunga neNtliziyo: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Ukuba bazizidenge ngokwaneleyo ukuba bahambe, yiba nobulumko ngokwaneleyo ukuba ubayeke bahambe."
Esi sicatshulwa sikhuthaza impendulo yobulumko kukwahlukana. Kunokuba uhlale ngomntu okhethe ukuhamba, yiba nobulumko kwaye umvumele ahambe. Sisikhumbuzo sokuzixabisa kwaye ungaleqeki emva kwabo bangakuxabisiyo.
5. Iidayimani Phakathi Kwamatye Angenaxabiso: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Ngenye imini baya kuqonda ukuba balahlekelwe idayimani ngelixa bedlala ngamatye angenaxabiso." - Turcois Ominek
Yiba nomfanekiso wedayimani enqabileyo nexabisekileyo ebomini bomntu. Ngokutsho kukaTurcois Ominek, iya kufika imini apho abo bahambayo baya kuzisola ngokudlala “ngamatye angenaxabiso” endaweni yokuxabisa ilitye elinqabileyo ababenalo.
6. Isiqalekiso Somthetho: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Ndiyathemba ukuba uya kunyathela kwiLego."
Ngamanye amaxesha iminqweno yokwahlukana inokuba yinto ehlekisayo. Lo mnqweno yimbonakaliso yentliziyo ekhaphukhaphu kodwa ehambelanayo yodano. Ukunyathela iLego kwaziwa ngokubanzi ngamava ayo abuhlungu, oko kuyenza ibe yindlela ehlekisayo yokuveza ukungonwabi.
7. Amandla okuPhilisa eXesha: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Ixesha kuphela elinokuphilisa intliziyo yakhe, njengokuba ixesha kuphela linokuphilisa iingalo nemilenze yakhe eyaphukileyo." -Nkosazana Piggy
U-Miss Piggy wongeza into ehlekisayo kwinkqubo yokuphilisa. Ixesha lidla ngokuthathwa njengelona gqirha ligqibeleleyo, kungekuphela nje amanxeba angokweemvakalelo kodwa nokwenzakala emzimbeni. Umzekeliso wongeza i-twist edlalwayo kwingcamango yokuchacha kwintlungu yentliziyo.
8. Amaqanda kunye nobudlelwane: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Ndiyathanda ubudlelwane bam njengokuba ndiyawathanda amaqanda am - ngokulula." - UJared Kintz
UJared Kintz uzoba ungqamaniso ohlekisayo phakathi kobudlelwane kunye namaqanda okupheka. Ukhetho lobudlelwane "olulula kakhulu" longeza ukubamba okuhlekisayo, okuthetha umnqweno wokulula kunye nokulula kunxibelelwano lothando.
9. Iwotshi yothando yeminyaka esixhenxe: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Uthando luhlala malunga neminyaka esixhenxe. Lixesha elingakanani ke ukuba iiseli zomzimba zithathe indawo yazo ngokupheleleyo.” - UFrancoise Sagan
UFrancoise Sagan uzisa inguqu yesayensi kwingqikelelo yobude bothando. Ngokwale catshulwa, kuthiwa uthando luhlala malunga neminyaka esixhenxe, luhambelana nexesha elithathayo ukuba iiseli zomzimba zihlaziywe ngokupheleleyo. Yimbono engaqhelekanga kubomi obude bothando.
10. Ukuguqula Iinyembezi zibe Luncumo: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: “Musa ukukhala kuba kuphelile. Ncuma kuba ekugqibeleni uyingxaki yomnye umntu.”
Ukwahlukana kunokuba neemvakalelo, kodwa esi sicatshulwa sikhuthaza utshintsho kwimbono. Kunokuba uhlale ucinga ngokuphela kolwalamano, fumana intuthuzelo kwinto yokuba umntu obangela iinyembezi ngoku uxhalabele omnye umntu.
11. Ukubuyisela uBudlelwane ngasemva: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Kufuneka sithathe ubudlelwane bethu sibubeke kwinqanaba elidlulileyo."
Le ngxelo ehlekisayo ibonisa indlela ekhethekileyo yobudlelwane. Esikhundleni sokuqhubela phambili, isithethi siphakamisa ukubuyela ngasemva kubudlelwane, songeza i-twist yokudlala kwingcamango yokuthatha izinto kwinqanaba elilandelayo.
12. IMeko yezeMali eyaphukileyo: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Ubudlelwane bethu bufana nemeko yam yezemali: yophukile."
Ukuthelekisa ubudlelwane kwimeko yezemali ukuba "yaphukile" yongeza i-touch of humor kwinyani yoxhulumaniso olunzima. Yindlela elula yokuvuma imingeni phakathi kobudlelwane.
13. Ukwaphuka kwentliziyo kwiXesha leDijithali: Isicatshulwa sokuqala: "Awuzange wophule intliziyo yakho de uvale kwaye ucime yonke into emva kokwahlukana."
Ngexesha loqhagamshelo lwedijithali, esi sicaphulo sibamba iintlungu ezikhethekileyo zentliziyo yanamhlanje. Ukuthintela kunye nokucima yonke imiqondiso yobudlelwane obudlulileyo kwiiplatifomu zeendaba zoluntu zifanekisela inkalo yedijithali yokuhamba phambili, ukwenza inkqubo yokuphilisa ibe ngumngeni kwaye ihambelana.
Iingcaphuno Zokwahlukana Xa Uthando Luphela
- "Abantu abahamba ngokukhawuleza abazange bafune ukuhlala." Ubudlelwane bufana nohambo, kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu esidibana naye omiselwe ukuba yinxalenye esisigxina yobomi bethu. Abo bahamba buphuthuphuthu basenokuba babengazimiselanga kwasekuqaleni ukuzibophelela.
- Iintliziyo azinakwenzeka de zingonakali. Le Wizard of Oz quote ibonisa ukuba iintliziyo zethu, nangona zibalulekile, zinokuba buthathaka. Oku kuthetha ukuba eyona nto isebenzayo yentliziyo ixhomekeke ekukwazini kwayo ukumelana nocelomngeni olubangelwa bubomi.
- "Ungaze ubeke phambili umntu okuphatha njengokhetho." Ubulumko bukaMark Twain busikhuthaza ukuba sizixabise kubudlelwane. Sisikhumbuzo sokuba ukubaluleka kwethu akufuneki kuthotywe kumntu ongabuyiseli kwinqanaba elifanayo lokuzinikela.
- "Ukuhamba ngelixa usathandana yeyona nto inzima." Ubunzima bokukhulula ngelixa ugcina uthando ngumzabalazo oqhelekileyo womntu. Esi sicatshulwa sibandakanya umngeni weemvakalelo wokuphelisa ubudlelwane nangona uthando luhleli.
- "Ukuqhubela phambili: Oonobumba abathandathu, amagama amabini, kulula ukuwathetha, kunzima ukucacisa, kunzima ukwenza." Ukuyiyeka kwaye ukuqhubela phambili kunokuvakala kulula, kodwa ubunzima beemvakalelo obubandakanyekayo bukwenza kube ngumsebenzi onzima. Esi sicatshulwa sibamba ubume benkqubo entsonkothileyo.
- "Uthando alunamiqathango, kodwa ubudlelwane abukho." Uthando olungagungqiyo lungamandla anamandla, ukanti ubudlelwane bufuna okungaphezulu kunothando nje. Esi sicatshulwa sigxininisa umahluko phakathi kwendalo engapheliyo yothando kunye nokusebenza koqhagamshelwano lwabantu.
- "Olona thando lushushu lunesiphelo esibanda kakhulu." Amazwi kaSocrates abonisa inyaniso ecacileyo yokuba inkanuko enzulu ngamanye amaxesha inokukhokelela kwisigqibo esikhawulezileyo nesipholileyo.
- “Ukuyeka ubomi bethu obucwangcisiweyo kulowo usilindileyo.” Ukuqonda kukaJoseph Campbell kuyasikhuthaza ukuba samkele into engalindelekanga, sivumele ukuba sihambe kwiingcamango zangaphambili ukuze senze indawo yamathuba angalindelekanga obomi.
- "Ukuvalwa kuza xa uvala ucango." Isicatshulwa sikaJacki Wells Wunderlin sibalaselisa ukubaluleka kokulawula impilo-ntle yethu yeemvakalelo ngokuvala ngenkuthalo isahluko sobudlelwane obudlulileyo.
- "Ngamanye amaxesha intliziyo idinga ixesha lokwamkela into esele iyazi ingqondo." Ukuvuma ukungafani phakathi kweemvakalelo zethu kunye neengcinga ezinengqiqo, esi sicatshulwa sibonisa umzabalazo wangaphakathi ngexesha lenkqubo yokuphilisa.
- “Awunakuqala isahluko esitsha ukuba uqhubeka ufunda esokugqibela.” Ukuqhubela phambili kufuna ukuyeka ixesha elidlulileyo. Esi sicatshulwa sigxininisa ukubaluleka kokwamkela utshintsho kunye nokujonga kwikamva.
- "Wenza ntoni xa umntu otyumkileyo ekwanguntliziyo-ntliziyo?" Esi sicatshulwa sisenza sicinge ngobunzulu bokufuna intuthuzelo kumntu owabangela intlungu yethu.
- “Iintolo zentliziyo eyaphukileyo zibukhali.” Isafobe sikaCassandra Clare sibonisa ngokucacileyo iintlungu ezibuhlungu ezihamba nokwaphuka kwentliziyo.
- "Indlela abahamba ngayo ibonisa yonke into." Uqwalaselo olufutshane lukaRupi Kaur lucebisa ukuba indlela yokuhamba ibonelela ngeembono kubume bokwenyani bobudlelwane.
- "Ukuyeka kunzima xa uqonda ukuba omnye umntu sele ekwenzile." Isicatshulwa sikaLalla sithatha ubunzima bokwamkela ukuphela kobudlelwane, ngakumbi xa ukuzaliseka kweqela lomnye umntu kubetha kakhulu.
- "Ubudlelwane, njengookrebe, kufuneka bahlale beqhubela phambili ukuze baphile." Lo mzekeliso uvela ku-Annie Hall ubonisa ubudlelwane njengamaqumrhu aguqukayo afuna ukukhula okuqhubekayo ukuze aphumelele.
- Akukho nto ibuhlungu njengokuphoxeka kulowo ubucinga ukuba akanakuze akuvise ubuhlungu. Isicatshulwa sikaGugu Mofokeng sivakalisa intlungu enzulu yokungcatshwa ngumntu ebesimthembile.
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Ukophuka kwentliziyo ngeeQuote zoMculo
- 'ulungile 4 u' ngu-Olivia Rodrigo - "Wenza kakuhle ngaphandle kwam, mntwana / Njengomntu olungileyo wentlalontle" Kule ngoma, u-Olivia Rodrigo uchaza imvakalelo yokubona umntu ehamba ngaphandle komgudu ngokungathi akaziva ntlungu. Kufana nokubukela i-sociopath engabonakalisi mvakalelo, ishiya imvumi ivakalelwa kukuba ifakwe endaweni kwaye ingabalulekanga.
- 'Slayida Umke' nguMiley Cyrus – “Kudala, yenzelwe thina (Yethu)/ Yavuka ngenye imini, yajika yaba luthuli/ Sana, safunyanwa, kodwa ngoku silahlekile/ Ngoko ke ixesha lokuyiyeka.” U-Miley Cyrus ubonakalisa ubuhlobo obukade bugqibelele kodwa ngoku buye bawohloka. Isafobe sento ejika ibe luthuli sigxininisa ukungagqibeleli kothando. Nangona ifunyenwe ekuqaleni, isibini ngoku silahlekile, kwaye lixesha lokwamkela isiphelo.
- 'Iinyembezi Zoma Zodwa' ngu-Amy Winehouse – “Andikwazi kudlala ngokwam kwakhona/kufuneka ndibe ngumhlobo wam osenyongweni” U-Amy Winehouse uyasivuma isidingo sokukhululeka kumjikelo wokwaphuka kwentliziyo. Uyakuqonda ukubaluleka kokuzithanda kwaye ucebisa ukuba ukudlala umdlalo ofanayo weemvakalelo akufanelekanga. Lixesha lokuba ube ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni.
- 'Imithetho emitsha' nguDua Lipa - "Emithathu: Musa ukuba ngumhlobo wakhe / Uyazi ukuba uya kuvuka ebhedini yakhe kusasa" / Kwaye ukuba uphantsi kwakhe, awuzumfumana. ” UDua Lipa unikezela ngeengcebiso ezisebenzayo malunga nokuqhubela phambili. Imigaqo igxininisa ukubaluleka kokumisela imida ukuphepha ukuphinda ubuyele kwiipateni ezifanayo. Ukuqonda ukuba ukuba ngabahlobo okanye ukusondelelana kunokuthintela inkqubo yokuchacha kubalulekile.
- 'Biza Igama Lam' nguThe Weeknd - "Ukuwela ngenxa yakho ibe yimpazamo yam." I-Weeknd ngokuphandle ivakalisa ukuzisola ngokuthandana. Ukuvuma impazamo kubonisa ukuqonda okubuhlungu, kugxininisa impembelelo yobudlelwane obungaphumeleli.
- 'Isibane esiluhlaza' nguLorde - "Ingaba ikoyikile, indlela esaphuzana ngayo xa sasidanisa kumgangatho wokukhanya?" INkosi ibonakalisa ubunzulu bobudlelwane obudlulileyo. Umbuzo ubonisa ukuthanda kunye nokungaqiniseki koqhagamshelwano, ukushiya indawo yolonwabo kunye noloyiko.
- 'Ngaphandle kwam' nguHalsey - "Ngaba ikhe ibe nesithukuthezi, ucinga ukuba ungaphila ngaphandle kwam?" U-Halsey unemibuzo ngesigqibo salowo wayesakuba aphile ngaphandle kwakhe, ezibuza ukuba ngaba baziva benesithukuthezi okanye bayazisola na. Iphonononga iziphumo zoqhawulo-mtshato kunye nempembelelo enayo kumaqela omabini.
- 'Zithande' nguHailee Steinfeld - "Ndiya kuzithanda, hayi, andidingi mntu wumbi." Umyalezo oxhobisayo kaHailee Steinfeld ugxininisa ukubaluleka kokuzithanda. La mazwi akhuthaza ukuzimela kunye nokuqonda ukuba ubani unokufumana ulonwabo ngaphakathi kuye.
- 'Enkosi, Okulandelayo' ngu-Ariana Grande - "Enkosi, ngokulandelayo." Umhobe ka-Ariana Grande ubhiyozela ukuqhubela phambili kubudlelwane obudlulileyo kunye nombulelo kwizifundo ezifundiweyo. Ibinzana elithi "enkosi, ngokulandelayo" liba yimantra yokwamkela ikamva.
- '10 Bands' nguDrake – “Iex yam yandibuza, 'Where you movin'?' Ndathi, 'Yiya kwizinto ezingcono.' Isicatshulwa sikaDrake sicebisa ukukhula kunye nenkqubela phambili emva kokuhlukana. Ukuqhubela phambili “kwizinto ezilunge ngakumbi” kubonisa ukuba nembono entle ngekamva.
- 'Asisoze sibuyelane' nguTaylor Swift - "Asisoze sabuyelana." Isibhengezo esithe ngqo sikaTaylor Swift sibonisa isigqibo esiqinileyo sokuphelisa ubudlelwane. Ukuphindaphinda kugxininisa ukugqitywa kokwahlukana.
- 'Khwaza kwi-Ex yam' nguMxube omncinci - "Uyenze intliziyo yam yaphuka kwaye loo nto yandenza ukuba ndingubani." UMxube omncinci wamkela ingcamango yokuba intliziyo ebuhlungu ibumba ubuni bomntu. Ukuvunywa kweentlungu ezidlulileyo kudibaniswa nokukhula komntu kunye nokomelela.
- Tori Kelly, 'Bekufanele ukuba Ibe Ngathi' – “Akulunganga ukuba ndisakhathala kwaye ndiyazibuza ukuba uphi ngobu busuku. Ukucinga ukuba kunokuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Kodwa mhlawumbi siyiphosile.” UTori Kelly uvakalisa iimvakalelo eziqhubekayo kunye nokungabi nabulungisa kokunyamekela emva kokwahlukana. Ukucinga ngento ebenokuba yiyo yongeza ubunzulu kuhambo lweemvakalelo.
- URhett Butler, Uhambe Nomoya - "Ngeliphandle, sithandwa sam, andikhathali." Esi sicatshulwa seklasikhi sifaka ingcamango yokungakhathali emva kokuhlukana. Impendulo echanekileyo kaRhett Butler ibonisa ukuhlukana okupheleleyo kubudlelwane obudlulileyo.
Ukukhuthaza ukuCatshulwa koKwahlukana
Ukwahlukana kunokuba nzima, kodwa kuzisa nezifundo ezibalulekileyo. Nazi ezinye izicatshulwa ezilula zokwahlukana ukukunceda ukuba uqonde kwaye uhambe kuzo ngenkalipho:
- Ukuyeka: Ukuba umntu ugqiba kwelokuba abushiye ubomi bakho, kusenokuba kuhle ukuba umvumele. Kunzima, kodwa inokuba yinto efanelekileyo kuni nobabini.
- Ukuzixabisa: Ukungatshati kulungile, ngakumbi ukuba kuthetha ukugcina isidima sakho kunokuba utshintshe ukuze ufumane imvume yomnye umntu.
- Yazi Ixabiso Lakho: Ungalibali ukuba ubaluleke kangakanani, nokuba umntu akakuboni.
- Funda kwaye uqhubele phambili: Ukubambelela kwimpazamo ngenxa yokuba utyale ixesha kuyo akuvelisi. Funda kuyo kwaye uqhubele phambili.
- Intsikelelo Ngokuzifihla: Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuhlukana kunokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokuzifihla, kukunceda uqonde ukuba ungcono ngaphandle kwaloo mntu.
- Ukukhula ngeentlungu: Iintliziyo ezibuhlungu zinokuba buhlungu, kodwa zinokukunceda ukuba ubone izinto ngokucacileyo kwaye ukhule njengomntu.
- Yamkela Ngoku: Gxininisa kwizinto onazo ngoku kunye nezo ziseza kwenzeka, kunokuba uhlale ucinga ngexesha elidlulileyo.
- Ukomelela Kubunzima: Iintlungu zinokukwenza womelele, uloyiko lunokukwenza ube nesibindi, kwaye ukudandatheka kunokukwenza ulumke ngakumbi.
- Ukuzithanda: Kubalulekile ukuziva uxatyisiwe yonke imihla kwaye ungazinzeli phantsi kokufanelekileyo.
- I-Silver Linings: Ngamanye amaxesha, izinto ezilungileyo ziyawa ukuze izinto ezingcono zihlangane kwixesha elizayo.
- Ukuzimela: Ukungatshati kuthetha iingxaki ezimbalwa zobudlelwane onokuzikhathaza ngazo.
- Phila Ngeli xesha: Gxininisa kulonwabo lwanamhlanje endaweni yokucinga ngento engasekhoyo.
- Ukwamkela kunye nokholo: Yamkela okwenzekileyo, uyeke ixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye ukholelwe kwikamva eliqaqambileyo.
- Iziqalo ezitsha: Ukuqala phantsi kunokothusa, kodwa ikwalithuba lokudala ubomi obufuna ngokwenene.
- Ziyeke Izinto Ezidluleyo Ngasemva: Khangela phambili koko kuzayo, ushiye ngasemva nakuphi na ukuzisola okanye usizi.
- Zixabise Iinkumbulo: Kunokuba ube buhlungu kuba into iphelile, yiba nombulelo kuba yenzekile.
- Ukuziqinisekisa: Ukufumana ukuzithemba kunye nokomelela ngaphakathi kwakho kunamandla kwaye kuyaxhobisa.
- Funda Uze Ukhule: Onke amava, kwanakwintliziyo ebuhlungu, anokufundisa into ebalulekileyo.
- Siqhubela Phambili:Ungabuyeli kwinto ekuphatha kakubi. Qhubeka usiya phambili kwizinto ezingcono.
- Ukugqibelela: Ukufumana uthando lokwenyani, kufuneka uqale uphelele ngaphakathi kwakho.
Ucaphulo
- Iincwadi zokufunda: Gugu Mofokeng > Izicatshulwa
- phakathi: “Akhonto ibuhlungu njengokwaphulwa ngumntu obucinga ukuba akanakuze akuvise ubuhlungu”
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