Kodi umuna wapoizoni ndi chiyani, ndi makhalidwe apoizoni ati aumuna, ndipo ndi zitsanzo ziti zimene zimakambidwa kaŵirikaŵiri m’chitaganya lerolino?
Kawirikawiri, pali lingaliro lakuti mwamuna wamwamuna ali ndi minofu. Zoona zake n’zakuti, mwamuna amayembekezedwa kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, koma osati kuchita mantha ndi umuna wake.
M’malo mosonyeza makhalidwe oipa aumuna, akatswiri amakhulupirira zokhumba zachimuna. Ambiri mwa anyamata achichepere m’badwo uno amangomva zaumuna wapoizoni ndipo zimaphunzitsa kuti umunthu wawo ndi wapoizoni.
Umuna wokhumbira uyenera kukhala mukukambirana kuti uphunzitse achinyamata achichepere kuti umunthu wawo siwowopsa.
Kodi Umuna Ndi Chiyani?
Umuna umatanthawuza makhalidwe, maudindo, ndi zikhumbo zomwe gulu limagwirizana ndi anyamata kapena amuna. Mawu akuti 'chimuna chimamangidwa ndikufotokozedwa mwamakhalidwe ndi ndale, m'malo moyendetsedwa ndi biologically.
Kodi Umuna Wa Toxic Ndi Chiyani
Umuna wapoizoni umatanthawuza mtundu waukulu waumuna umene umatanthawuza ukulu wa amuna, kulamulira, ndi kulamulira mphamvu. Ndi ndondomeko za chikhalidwe cha anthu zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi kukhala mwamuna, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimakhala ndi zotsatira zoipa kwa amuna, akazi, ndi anthu.
Umuna wapoizoni sunapangidwe kutanthauza kuti lingaliro lachimuna ndi loipa. Komabe, zimakonda kuzindikira makhalidwe ena ndi malingaliro olakwika omwe nthawi zambiri amagwirizanitsidwa ndi umuna, monga kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Mawu akuti 'toxic masculinity' amapezeka m'njira zingapo. Chitsanzo chodziwika bwino ndicho kuwuza anyamata achichepere kuti “akwatire” panthaŵi yaukali. Kapena kulungamitsa makhalidwe osayenera ponena kuti “Anyamata adzakhala anyamata”.
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Poizoni Wachimuna Vs Ukazi
Nthawi zambiri, umuna wapoizoni umakana ukazi mosiyanasiyana mwanjira iliyonse.
Mwamuna akangochirikiza ukazi kapena kuchita mwachimuna, amachenjezedwa kuti azichita mwamuna. 'Amuna enieni' amene sachita zimenezi amakhala amphamvu mwachibadwa.
Amuna amene amachita zimenezi kaŵirikaŵiri amanyazitsidwa, kuchitiridwa nkhanza, kapena kuchititsidwa manyazi ndi anthu amene amafuna kuti azichita zinthu mwaumuna.
Makhalidwe Asanu Oopsa Kwambiri Amuna
Nawa machitidwe ena oopsa a amuna.
Kukhala Stoic
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zitsanzo zofala za umuna.
Kawirikawiri, amuna amauzidwa nthawi zonse ndikuvomereza lingaliro loyenera kukhala lodziimira, lodzidalira, lolimba mwakuthupi ndi m'maganizo. Amuna amamangidwa mosiyana ndi akazi ndipo kaŵirikaŵiri amavomereza lingaliro lakuti njira yokhayo yopezera chipambano mwachisawawa ndiyo kukhala mwamuna.
Sizovomerezeka kuti abambo azikhala pachiwopsezo chifukwa amanyozedwa ngati atero.
Kukhala Wolamulira
Ngakhale zili mu chikhalidwe cha amuna kuti azilamulira, kusonyeza mphamvu ndi kulamulira kungakhale kosayenera nthawi zina. Zitha kuchititsa mantha mwakuthupi kapena pa intaneti.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wina, amuna opitirira XNUMX omwe ali pachibwenzi amaganiza kuti ayenera kuyankhulana, pamene amuna opitirira gawo limodzi mwa magawo atatu aliwonse amakhulupirira kuti ayenera kudziŵa kumene mkazi kapena mkazi wake ali pa nthawi iliyonse.
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Kukhala Wachiwerewere
Amuna adzayamikiridwa ndi amuna ena chifukwa chogonjetsa kugonana nthawi iliyonse tsiku lililonse.
Zikafika pakumvetsetsa kwa chiwerewere cha amuna ndi akazi, amuna amayamikiridwa chifukwa cha mphamvu zawo. Adzayamikiridwa ndi kutchedwa 'studs' pomwe amayi omwe ali ndi zibwenzi zingapo adzatchedwa 'zahule'.
Osakhala Mgwirizano Wachikazi
Amuna amene amachirikiza kapena amene ali ogwirizana ndi omenyera ufulu wa akazi adzachititsidwa manyazi, manyazi, ndi kuzunzidwa ndi anthu.
Kafukufuku wina akusonyeza kuti amuna amene amachita zinthu zolimbikitsa ufulu wa akazi amakhala anthu amene amachitiridwa nkhanza ndi amuna anzawo.
Osawonetsa Kutengeka
Kukhala wotengeka mtima kumawonedwa ngati khalidwe lachikazi. Siziyembekezeredwa kuti mwamuna ayenera kukhala wokonda kwambiri chilichonse.
Kuyambira ali aang'ono, anyamata amauzidwa kuti asamatengeke kwambiri. Kuwonetsa kutengeka kumawonedwa ngati kofooka komanso kwachikazi.
Aspirational Masculinity
Malinga ndi nkhani (Kulankhula ndi Anyamata za kukhala anyamata) lofalitsidwa pa CNN Health, yemwe kale anali katswiri wa mpira wachinyamata Don McPherson analankhula za 'chilakolako chachimuna'.
Don McPherson akuzindikira kuti akusowa chinachake monga momwe amalankhulira ndi anyamata. McPherson analankhula za zotsatira zoipa pa mbadwo wa anyamata amene anangomva za mawu akuti 'chimuna poizoni'.
Anyamatawo angaganize kuti umunthu wawo ndi wapoizoni ndi kuti umuna ulibe kanthu kopindulitsa.
Kulakalaka umuna kumaphatikizapo kulowetsa amuna mu "kuwunika koyenera kwa iwo omwe ali ndi maubwenzi ndi makhalidwe ndi pakati pa amuna" Don McPherson akutero.
M'mawu a McPherson, "Tiyenera kusiya kufunsa anyamata ndi abambo okha kuti apereke malo kwa ena, m'malo mwake tizipempha amuna kuti adzipangire malo atsopano omwe samangokhalira kutanthauzira zachimuna".
Zitsanzo Zachikhalidwe Zachimuna
Mwamuna amayenera kuchita zinthu mwaumuna monga momwe anthu amafunira ndipo apa pali zitsanzo za chikhalidwe cha amuna.
Mwamuna Ayenera Kukhala Wankhondo
Chifukwa cha chikhalidwe chawo, amuna amayembekezeredwa kukhala omenyana, okonzeka kuchita ndewu zakuthupi. M’mbiri yonse ya nkhondo, amuna akhala akuteteza akazi ndi ana ku mikangano.
M’zaka za m’ma Middle Ages, amuna ankayenera kumenyana kuti athetse mikangano yawo. Mwamuna amene safuna kumenyana ndi mnzake nkhonya kapena lupanga amatchedwa 'wamantha'.
Amuna amayembekezeredwa kumenya nkhondo kuti apeze ulemu wawo ngakhale zitatanthauza kuti ayenera kufa chifukwa cha izo.
Muyenera Kukhala Aminofu
Mwamuna weniweni amayenera kukhala olimba kwambiri komanso owonetsa mphamvu. Kukhala ndi minofu kumatanthauza mphamvu ndipo ndizomwe zimayembekezeredwa kwa amuna.
Ndi lingaliro wamba kuti amuna akhale olimba mtima popeza ali alenje ndi oteteza fuko. Amuna olimba mtima amatha kusaka ndi mphamvu zawo kuteteza akazi awo.
Amuna ayenera kukhala okonzeka Kupereka Nsembe
Udindo wa amuna m'dera lamasiku ano umafuna kuti adzipereke. Akuyembekezeka kukhala ngwazi zoteteza dziko lawo, kudzipereka ndi moyo wawo.
Chifukwa cha chiyembekezo chaumuna chimenechi, pali amuna ambiri amene akutumikira usilikali kuposa akazi. Amuna nthawi zambiri amagwira ntchito zowopsa zomwe zingawaphe.
Musakhale Wamiseche
Amuna amayembekezeka kulankhula pa nkhani zofunika kwambiri osati kuchita zinthu zazing’ono. Mwamuna amene amalankhula kwambiri kapena miseche amaoneka kuti ndi wofooka.
M’Malamulo akale a Hammurabi, nkhani zabodza sizimaloledwa. Limanena kuti munthu aliyense woneneza koma wosakhoza kutsimikizira adzaphedwa. Miseche inali mlandu wopha munthu m’nthaŵi zakale.
Amuna Ayenera Kukhala Odzidalira Ndi Odziimira
Mwamuna ndiye mutu wa banja, wosamalira banja, ndi wosamalira banja. Iye ndi amene ali ndi udindo wosamalira thanzi la banjalo ndipo amayembekeza kuti azitsatira udindo umenewo.
Komabe m'dera lamasiku ano, tavomereza kufanana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi ndipo pali lingaliro loti amayi atha kuchita ntchito zauinjiniya, zamankhwala, bizinesi, ndi zina zambiri.
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Amuna Samalira
Amuna amamangidwa mosiyana ndipo amawoneka kuti ndi anzeru pomwe akazi amakhudzidwa.
Kuyambira ali aang’ono, anyamata amauzidwa kuti asasonyeze kutengeka maganizo ndi kulimbana ndi ululu wakuthupi kapena wamaganizo. Ichi sichina koma umuna wapoizoni.
Amuna ayenera kutulutsa malingaliro awo pamene akumva choncho. Kusunga zonse mkatimo kungayambitse kuwonongeka kwa thanzi chifukwa amuna satetezedwa kumavutowa.
Muyenera Kukhala Olemekezeka
Mwamuna amayenera kukhala woona mtima ndi mawu ake kuti apeze ulemu. Sosaiti imayembekezeranso kuti amuna azikhala otsimikiza komanso osanyinyirika.
Amuna amayembekezeka kukhala ndi mikhalidwe ya utsogoleri, kukhala owona ku zonena zawo, komanso kukhala okayikakayika.
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Amuna Asamasonyeze Kufooka
Panthawi ya mikangano, amuna amayembekezeka kutenga nawo mbali pankhondoyo osati kubisala pakati pa amayi ndi ana. Mwamuna sayenera kusonyeza kufooka pazochitika zomwe zimafuna kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga.
Amuna amene nthawi zambiri amasonyeza kufooka kwawo amaonedwa kuti ndi ofooka.
Muyenera kukhala Otsimikiza ndi Okhazikika
Chimodzi mwa zitsanzo za umuna ndi kukhala wolimba ngati mwamuna.
Kukhala wodzidalira kumatanthawuza khalidwe la mtsogoleri. m'mbiri yonse, zikhalidwe zatengera amuna pa maudindo a utsogoleri, kunyalanyaza luso lililonse kapena nzeru zomwe mkazi angapereke.
Muyenera Kukhala Olemera Mwazachuma
Mwamuna amayembekezeredwa kukhala wopambana pazachuma m’chitaganya chamakono. Udindo wawo m'banja umafuna kuti azipereka ndalama zothandizira banja lawo.
Amuna sangathe kukwaniritsa udindo wawo monga wosamalira banja ngati alibe ntchito kapena alibe magwero a ndalama.
Masiku ano, akazi ambiri sangagwirizane ndi amuna omwe alibe ntchito ndipo sangapeze ntchito.
Kutsiliza
Umuna wapoizoni ndi wopanda thanzi kwa anyamata achichepere. Ngakhale amuna mwachibadwa amamangidwa mosiyana, amatha kusonyezabe maganizo nthawi zina. Mwamuna ali ndi ntchito zake zachilengedwe ndipo amayembekezeredwa ndi anthu kuti akwaniritse.
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Zothandizira
- Pulofesa wothandiza: 15 Zitsanzo Zachimuna
- Aurorand: Kodi makhalidwe 10 apamwamba kwambiri a Toxic Masculinity ndi ati?
- Greenhillrecovery: Kodi Umuna Wa Toxic N'chiyani?
- Webmd: Kodi Umuna Wa Toxic N'chiyani?
- ScienceDirect: Zachimuna ndi Zachikazi
- Library ya pa intaneti.Wiley: Ntchito Zachimuna ndi Zopanda Zachikhalidwe: Kukambitsirana kwa Amuna mu Ntchito Ya Amayi
- Edition.CNN: Kulankhula ndi anyamata za kukhala mnyamata
- Link.Springer: Amuna
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