Kuthetsa ubale ndi munthu amene mudagawana naye nthawi yosangalatsa ndizovuta, ngakhale mukumva bwanji pambuyo pake.
Kusweka kumagunda kwambiri, kukusiyani osweka mtima komanso otaika, makamaka mutapereka mtima wanu ndi chikondi chanu.
Kuti tikuthandizeni kupyola nthawi yovutayi, tapanga mndandanda wamawu omwe amajambula zomwe mungakhale mukukumana nazo. Mawu awa amagwirizana ndi zowawa, amalimbikitsa kulimba mtima, ndipo amapereka chitonthozo pamene mukuyang'ana zotsatira za kutha kwa chibwenzi.
Kukhala pachibwenzi kungakhale kovuta, ndipo ngati zinthu sizikuyenda bwino, kupatukana ndi njira yokhayo ndipo sikophweka. Zilibe kanthu ngati chibwenzicho chinatha milungu ingapo kapena zaka zingapo—kuvutika maganizo kumakhala kwakukulu.
Pamene mukuyesera kuti muchiritse pamene munasudzulana, kuwerenga mawu osonyeza mmene mukumvera kapena kukulimbikitsani kuti mupite patsogolo kungakhale gwero la chitonthozo.
Kaya mukuyang'ana mawu omwe amafotokoza bwino momwe mukumvera kapena mawu ofotokoza pa Instagram kuti atsagane ndi positi yanu, pali nyimbo zambiri ndi mawu omwe akupezeka kuti afotokoze zomwe zingakhale zovuta kufotokoza. Kuyambira zolimbikitsa mpaka zokhumudwitsa ngakhalenso zoseketsa, fufuzani mndandanda wamawu abwino kwambiri otha kutha omwe amagwirizana ndi chilichonse chomwe mukumva.
Ndemanga Zabwino Kwambiri Zosiyanitsidwa
- "Zinthu zina zimasokoneza mtima wanu koma konza masomphenya anu."
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa akusonyeza kuti ngakhale zinthu zina zimawawa kwambiri, zikhoza kuchititsa kuti munthu akule komanso kumvetsa bwino moyo.
- Palibe chomwe chimawawa kuposa kukhumudwitsidwa ndi munthu yemwe mumaganiza kuti sangakupwetekeni. - Gugu Mofokeng
- Kufotokozera: Gugu Mofokeng akufotokoza zowawa za kuperekedwa kwa munthu wina yemwe tinkakhulupirira kuti adzakhala wothandizira nthawi zonse. Zimakhudza kusatetezeka kwa kudalira maubwenzi.
- “Simumatuluka m’chibwenzi chimanjamanja. Kutha kulikonse kumaphunzitsa phunziro. Pezani yanu."
- Kufotokozera: Kutha, ngakhale kuti kumapweteka, kumapereka maphunziro ofunika. Mawuwa amatilimbikitsa kuti tiganizire za zomwe takumana nazo ndikupeza nzeru kuti tipite patsogolo.
- "Osamamatira ku cholakwika chifukwa chakuti wakhala nthawi yayitali mukulakwitsa."
- Kufotokozera: Povomereza kuwonongera nthawi muubwenzi, mawuwa akutilimbikitsa kupewa kupitiriza kulakwitsa chifukwa cha nthawi yomwe yasungidwa. Imalimbikitsa kulimba mtima kusiya.
- “Sindimachita nsanje ndikaonana ndi mkazi wanga wakale ndi munthu wina, chifukwa makolo anga amandiphunzitsa kupatsa anthu osauka zidole zanga zakale.”
- Kufotokozera: Zoseketsa, mawu awa akukonzanso malingaliro akuwona wakale ali ndi wina watsopano, ndikuwunikira kufunikira kopitilira chisomo ndi nthabwala.
- “Musalole kuti munthu amene sakukondani akuchititseni kuiwala kuti ndinu wofunika kwambiri.”
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa akutsindika kufunika kodziona kuti ndi wofunika ndipo akuchenjeza kuti tisalole kuti munthu wosafunika achepetse mtengo wake.
- “Munagwa m’chikondi ndi namondwe. Munaganiza kuti mutulukamo osavulazidwa?” - Nikita Gill
- Kufotokozera: Mawu ophiphiritsa a Nikita Gill akufanizira chikondi ndi mkuntho, kuchenjeza kuti maubwenzi okondana nthawi zambiri amabwera ndi zovuta ndi zotsatira zake.
- “Musalire chifukwa zatha. Nyetulirani chifukwa ndiye kuti ndiye vuto la munthu wina.”
- Kufotokozera: Kulowetsa nthabwala pakutha, mawuwa akusonyeza kupeza mpumulo ndi chimwemwe chenicheni chakuti magwero a chisoni salinso nkhawa ya munthu.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Anthu omwe amafulumira kuchoka ndi omwe sanafune kukhalapo."
- Kufotokozera: Mawu oseketsa opatukanawa akupereka mawonekedwe amasewera kwa iwo omwe amatuluka mwachangu maubale, kutanthauza kuti sanadzipereke konse.
- Mawu Oseketsa Kusweka: "Ndiwe odzola kwa burger wanga, mpeni ku supu yanga, wonyezimira ku sushi wanga, ndi ketchup kwa ayisikilimu wanga. Mfundo yanga ndi yakuti, ndiwe wopanda pake.”
- Kufotokozera: Pogwiritsa ntchito mafananidwe opanda pake, mawu amenewa moseketsa amatsutsa kufunika kwa munthu amene akumufunsayo, akumagwiritsira ntchito nthabwala kuti apirire vutolo.
- "Tiyenera kutengera ubale wathu pamlingo wakale."
- Kufotokozera: Kusewerera mawu mwanzeru, mawu awa moseketsa akuwonetsa kusunthira mmbuyo muubwenzi, kuwonetsa kupanda nzeru kuyesa kuthetsa kupita patsogolo kwake.
- Ndemanga ya Kutha Kwambiri: "Kusiyana kungatanthauze kuti anali bwenzi langa. Anali mtsikana amene anali mnzanga amene tsopano ndi mtsikana amene si mnzanga.” - Sheldon Cooper, THE BIG BANG THEORY
- Kufotokozera: Njira yotsatirika ya Sheldon yothetsa banja moseketsa imagogomezera kusintha kuchoka paubwenzi kupita ku kusoŵa mayanjano.
- Ndi bwino kukhala wosakwatira kapena wosakwatiwa m'malo modzitaya chifukwa chofuna kukondedwa.
- Kufotokozera: Mawu ameneŵa amalimbikitsa kusunga miyezo yaumwini ndi umphumphu, ngakhale zitatanthauza kukhala mbeta, m’malo mololera molakwa kaamba ka chivomerezo cha ena.
- "Ndikuganiza kuti ubale uli ngati shaki. Iyenera kupita patsogolo mosalekeza kapena ikafa. Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti zomwe tili nazo ndi shaki yakufa. ” - Alvy Singer, Annie Hall
- Kufotokozera: Fanizo la Alvy Singer likugogomezera kufunikira kwa kukula kosalekeza kwa ubale, kutanthauza kuti kusasunthika kungayambitse kutha kwake.
- Mawu Olimbikitsa Kuthetsa: "Si mikuntho yonse imabwera kudzasokoneza moyo wanu. Ena amabwera kudzakonza njira yanu.” — Paulo Coelho
- Kufotokozera: Mawu a Paulo Coelho amakonzanso ganizo la namondwe, kutanthauza kuti zovuta zina si zopinga koma mwayi wosintha zinthu.
- “Nthawi zina sindimadziwa chimene chimandivutitsa kwambiri. Zokumbukira za iwe ... kapena munthu wokondwa yemwe ndinali kale. ” - Ranata Suzuki
- Kufotokozera: Mawu okhudza mtima ameneŵa akusonyeza kulimbana kwamkati pakati pa zikumbukiro za unansi wakale ndi kutayika kwa umunthu wakale.
- “Simumafa ndi mtima wosweka. Umangolakalaka utatero.”
- Kufotokozera: Posonyeza kukula kwa ululu wa m’maganizo, mawu ameneŵa akusonyeza bwino lomwe mmene munthu akusweka mtima pamene akuvomereza nyonga ya kupirira.
- "Zowonadi, wokondedwa wanga, sindikudandaula." - Rhett Butler, Wapita Ndi Mphepo
- Kufotokozera: Mzere wodziwika bwino wa Rhett Butler wochokera ku "Gone With the Wind" ukutanthauza kupuma kotsimikizika, kuwonetsa kusayanjanitsika ndi omwe anali okonda kale.
- Ndemanga Yoseketsa Yosiyanitsidwa: "Oyamba kukufunsani kuti mukhale mabwenzi mukatha kutha ali ngati akuba akukupemphani kuti muzilumikizana akakulolani kupita."
- Kufotokozera: Pogwiritsa ntchito nthabwala, mawuwa akunyoza lingaliro la kukhalabe paubwenzi ndi munthu wakale, kufotokoza moseketsa kufanana ndi zochitika zosayembekezereka.
- "Nthawi zonse ndimakonda malingaliro anga olakwika okhudza inu."
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa amavomereza mwamasewera kusintha kuchokera ku malingaliro abwino kupita ku kumvetsetsa kwenikweni kwa ubale.
- “Iye wapita. Anandipatsa cholembera. Ndidamupatsa mtima wanga, adandipatsa cholembera." - Lloyd Dobler, Nenani Chilichonse
- Kufotokozera: Kawonedwe kachilendo ka Lloyd Dobler pankhani yakutha moseketsa akugogomezera kusinthana kosagwirizana kwa zinthu zachifundo.
- Ndemanga Yoseketsa Yosiyanitsidwa: "Ubale wathu uli ngati chuma changa: wasweka."
- Kufotokozera: Pogwiritsa ntchito mawu azachuma, mawu oseketsawa akufanizira momwe ubale wawo ulili ndi kusowa kwachuma, ndikuwonjezera kukhudza kopepuka pakutha.
- "Ndikuganiza kuti tiyenera kukhala alendo abwinoko."
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa akusonyeza kuti kudzipatula paubwenzi womwe walephera kungachititse kuti munthu akule bwino, kusintha zomwe tikudziwa n’kukhala zosadziwika.
- "Ngati ndikufuna kukhala senema, ndiyenera kukwatiwa ndi Jackie, osati Marilyn." - Warner Huntington III, Mwalamulo Blonde
- Kufotokozera: Mawu a Warner akuwonetsa zomwe anthu amayembekeza komanso zokhumba zake zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi maubwenzi, zomwe zimafanana moseketsa ndi anthu odziwika bwino Jackie Kennedy ndi Marilyn Monroe.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Pazolakwitsa zanga zonse, ndiwe wolakwitsa kwambiri."
- Kufotokozera: Kulowetsa nthabwala podziwonetsera nokha, mawuwa amavomereza mwasewero za vuto lomwe likuwoneka muubwenzi.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ngati muchotsa L kwa wokondedwa, zatha." - The Motels, "Tengani L"
- Kufotokozera: Sewero la mawuli limagwiritsa ntchito kuchotsedwa kwa chilembo “L” kuchokera ku “wokonda” kutanthauza kutha kwa chibwenzicho, ndikuwonjezera kupotoza mwanzeru ku chilengezo cha kutha.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ndinapanga kuvina kwatsopano. Imatchedwa Move on with Your Life.” - Sky Corrigan, Superstar
- Kufotokozera: Njira yopangira zinthu ya Sky Corrigan yopitilira patsogolo imawonetsedwa moseketsa ngati kuvina, kulimbikitsa malingaliro opepuka pa moyo wapambuyo pakutha.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osiyana: "Maluwa ndi ofiira. Violets ndi buluu. Zinyalala zatayidwa ndipo inunso mwatayidwa.”
- Kufotokozera: Kutengera ndakatulo koseketsa kumeneku kumayerekeza kutha kwa chibwenzi ndi kutaya zinyalala, kugwiritsa ntchito nthabwala kufotokoza kuchotsedwa kwa mnzake.
- "Kodi umakhala wosungulumwa, kuganiza kuti ungakhale wopanda ine?" - Halsey, "Popanda Ine"
- Kufotokozera: Nyimbo za Halsey zimagwirizana ndi kusungulumwa komwe kungabwere pamene wina azindikira zotsatira za chiyanjano pa moyo wawo.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ndikufuna kuti musiye kulembetsa chifukwa ndathana ndi zovuta zanu."
- Kufotokozera: Mawu oseketsawa akufanizira kutha kwa chibwenzi ndi kuletsa kulembetsa, kutanthauza kuti akufuna kusiya kunyamula katundu wa wokondedwa.
- "Zatha. Chonde tulukani mu T-shirt yanga ya Van Halen musanayambe kusokoneza gululo ndipo iwo atha. - Robbie Hart, Woyimba Ukwati
- Kufotokozera: Pempho loseketsa la Robbie Hart limagwirizanitsa kutha kwa zikhulupiriro za jinxing, ndikuwonjezera kupotoza koseketsa mpaka kumapeto kwa ubalewo.
- “Sindikukondanso. Bayi." —Alice Ayres, Pafupi
- Kufotokozera: Kutsanzikana kosasunthika kwa Alice Ayres kumaphatikiza kuphweka ndi kutha kwa kuthetsa chibwenzi.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ndikhoza kulira pamene mudandisiya, koma ndinaseka nditaona yemwe mwandisiya."
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa amagwiritsa ntchito nthabwala kuti apirire ululu wa kutha, kupeza chisangalalo posankha bwenzi latsopano.
- “Si iwe, ndi ine. Ndazindikira kuti ndiwe woipa kwa ine.”
- Kufotokozera: Mzere wachikale wosweka wapatsidwa kupotoza povomereza kuti wokamba nkhaniyo wazindikira kuwononga kwa ubale wawo paubwino wawo.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Kodi mumadziwa chilankhulo chamanja? Chifukwa aka ndi komaliza kumva za ine.
- Kufotokozera: Sewero lanzeru limeneli moseketsa limasonyeza kuthetsa kulankhulana mwa kutchula chinenero cha manja, kulowetsamo chinthu chongoseweretsa pakutha.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Sindidzakusewerani madzi." - Sam Spade, The Malta Falcon
- Kufotokozera: Kukana kwa Sam Spade kukhala wachifundo moseketsa kumakana lingaliro lakusewera "sap" kapena chikondi chopanda nzeru panthawi yotha.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Kodi ndinu nangula? Chifukwa sunachite kalikonse koma kundilemetsa.”
- Kufotokozera: Pogwiritsa ntchito mawu ophiphiritsa, mawuwa amayerekezera mnzanuyo moseketsa ndi nangula, kusonyeza kuti ali ndi vuto muubwenziwo.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Chifukwa ndikakuwonani mukudya, ndikakuwonani mukugona ndikakuyang'anani posachedwa, ndikungofuna kukuphwanyani nkhope yanu." - Barbara Rose, The War of the Roses
- Kufotokozera: Zimene Barbara Rose ananena mosapita m'mbali za kukhumudwa zikusonyeza kuti m'bale wina akulephera kukhumudwa.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ndapeza madamu akuya kuposa iwe."
- Kufotokozera: Kuyerekezera koseketsa kumeneku kukusonyeza kuti ngakhale zidole zimakhala zozama kwambiri kuposa kuya kwa mikhalidwe ya mnzakoyo, zomwe zimawonjezera kukhudza kopepuka pakutha.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Zikomo, lotsatira." - Ariana Grande, "Thank U, Next"
- Kufotokozera: Mawu opatsa mphamvu a Ariana Grande amatsindika kuyamikira pazochitikazo komanso kukonzekera kupita ku mutu wotsatira m'moyo.
- Mawu Oseketsa Akulekanitsidwa: “Amati zinyalala za munthu mmodzi ndi chuma cha munthu wina. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mwapeza munthu amene amakukondani.”
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa akugwiritsa ntchito mwambi wofala kusonyeza chikhumbo chakuti mnzanuyo apeze wina amene amamuyamikira, ndikuwonjezera kupotoza kwabwino kwa chilekanocho.
- Mawu Oseketsa a Kutha Kwathu: “Kusiyana kwathu kunali chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa zipembedzo. Iye ankaganiza kuti iye anali Mulungu. sindinatero.”
- Tanthauzo: Moseketsa ponena kuti kulekanako kunayambitsa “kusiyana kwa zipembedzo,” mawu ameneŵa akusonyeza mwaseŵera kudzikuza kwa mnzanuyo.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ndimadzitcha kuti Han chifukwa muyenera kukhala Solo."
- Kufotokozera: Sewero lanzeruli la mawu moseketsa limalengeza ufulu wodziyimira pawokha potengera zilembo za Han Solo ndi Solo.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Mumadzitcha kuti ndinu mzimu waulere, chinthu chakuthengo. Mukuchita mantha kuti winawake akukakamirani mu khola. Chabwino, mwana, iwe uli kale mu khola limenelo. Munazimanga nokha.” - Paul Varjack, Chakudya cham'mawa ku Tiffany's
- Kufotokozera: Zomwe a Paul Varjack adaziwona moseketsa zimatsutsa anthu omwe amadzitcha kuti "mzimu waufulu," kutanthauza kuti munthuyo watsekeredwa kale ndi zosankha zake.
- "Ndilibe nthawi kapena makrayoni, kuti ndikufotokozereni izi."
- Kufotokozera: Mawu amenewa moseketsa akusonyeza kusaleza mtima kapena kufunitsitsa kufotokoza zinthu zovuta, pogwiritsa ntchito fanizo la makrayoni pofuna kutsindika kuphweka.
- Quote ya Classic Breakup: "Chonde musapusitsidwe ndi Adele. Simudzapeza wina ngati ine.
- Kufotokozera: Mawuwa amasewera mochenjera pa nyimbo yotchuka ya Adele, kutanthauza kuti munthuyo ndi wapadera ndipo sangasinthidwe mosavuta.
- “Sindikufuna mawu okha. Ngati ndizo zonse zomwe muli nazo, kulibwino mupite. - F. Scott Fitzgerald, The Beautiful and The Damned
- Kufotokozera: Mawu a F. Scott Fitzgerald akugogomezera kufunika kwa zochita zatanthauzo muubwenzi, kukana mawu achiphamaso achikondi.
- Ndemanga Yoseketsa Yosiyanitsidwa: "Kodi ndiwe wathambo? Chifukwa ndimafunikira malo. ”
- Kufotokozera: Izi zoseketsa katola-mzere anatembenuzidwira kutha mawu osewerera amagwiritsa ntchito mfundo yofuna malo mu ubale.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Galu wanga ali ndi ana agalu ndipo ndiyenera kutenga chaka chimodzi kuti ndiwaphunzitse kuukira chithunzi chanu."
- Kufotokozera: Kuwiringula kopanda pake kumeneku moseketsa kumakokomeza kufunika kwa nthawi yopuma, kumawonjezera chinthu chongofuna kuthetsa chibwenzi.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Mumadutsa malingaliro anga Lachinayi m'mawa. Ndilo tsiku limene ndimachotsa zinyalala.”
- Kufotokozera: Mawu oseketsawa amagwiritsa ntchito ntchito wamba kuti afotokoze moseketsa kuchuluka kwa malingaliro okhudza mnzake wakale.
- "Sitinakhalepo, tidzabwereranso." - Taylor Swift, "Sitikubwereranso Pamodzi"
- Kufotokozera: Zomwe Taylor Swift adalengeza zikuwonetsa kuthekera kothetsa ubale komanso kudzipereka kuti asawuyambitsenso.
- Ndemanga Yoseketsa Yosiyanitsidwa: "Pepani, ndikuwoneka kuti ndataya nambala yanga yafoni, mungataninso?"
- Kufotokozera: Kutembenuza kwa mzere woseketsa uku kumagwiritsidwa ntchito kutanthauza moseketsa kusiya kulankhulana.
- Mawu Oseketsa Osokoneza: "Ndakukhululukirani moona mtima chifukwa chonditaya. Tsopano ndikuzindikira kuti si aliyense amene amamva kukoma kwake.”
- Kufotokozera: Mawu awa moseketsa amasintha malingaliro otayidwa, kutanthauza kuti kukoma kwa dumper sikungakhale koyenera.
Komanso Werengani: 30 Mauthenga a Micromanagement ndi Kufotokozera Kwawo
Mawu Oseketsa Pakusweka
1. Zsa Zsa Gabor's Unique Take on Diamonds: Mawu Oyambirira: "Sindinadanepo ndi mwamuna mokwanira kuti abweze diamondi zake." — Zsa Zsa Gabor
Kodi munayamba mwakhumudwapo ndi munthu wina mpaka munaganizapo zobweza mphatso zake zamtengo wapatali? Mawu anzeru a Zsa Zsa Gabor akusonyeza kuti sananyozepo aliyense motero. Tangoganizani kuti mukudana ndi munthu koma mukugwirabe diamondi zonyezimira zomwe anakupatsani.
2. Kuyendetsa Chikondi Ndi Mtima Wosokonekera: Mawu Oyambirira: "Sindikutsatiranso mtima wanga. Zimangondipatsa malangizo oipa.”
Kusankha kusiya kutsatira mtima wanu kungamveke zachilendo, koma mawuwa akusonyeza kuti nthawi zina mitima yathu imasokeretsa. Ingoganizirani mtima wanu ngati GPS yokhala ndi luso lakutengerani njira yolakwika. Kutsatira sikungakhale lingaliro labwino nthawi zonse.
3. Chenjezo la Adele Pobisala: Mawu Oyambirira: "Chonde musapusitsidwe ndi Adele. Simudzapeza wina ngati ine.
Mawu amphamvu a Adele nthawi zambiri amaimba za kusweka mtima, koma mawu awa akuwonetsa kupotoza. Imachenjeza ena kuti asanyengedwe ndi mawu a Adele, popeza kupeza munthu ngati wokamba nkhani kungakhale kosatheka.
4. Kukhala Wanzeru Zokhudza Kusweka Mtima: Mawu Oyambirira: "Ngati ali opusa kuti achoke, khalani anzeru mokwanira kuwasiya."
Mawu awa amalimbikitsa kuyankha mwanzeru pakutha. M’malo momangokhalira kuganizira za munthu amene wasankha kuchoka, khalani anzeru ndipo mulole kuti apite. Ndi chikumbutso chodzilemekeza osati kuthamangitsa omwe samakuyamikiridwa.
5. Ma diamondi Pakati pa Miyala Yachabechabe: Mawu Oyambirira: "Tsiku lina adzazindikira kuti adataya diamondi akusewera ndi miyala yopanda pake." - Turcois Ominek
Tangoganizani kukhala diamondi yosowa komanso yamtengo wapatali m'moyo wa munthu. Malinga ndi a Turcois Ominek, lidzafika tsiku limene amene anachoka adzanong’oneza bondo kuseŵera ndi “miyala yopanda pake” m’malo moyamikira mwala umene anali nawo.
6. Temberero la Legoful: Mawu Oyambirira: "Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuyenda pa Lego."
Nthawi zina zilakolako zakutha zimatha kukhala zachindunji. Chikhumbo ichi ndi chisonyezero chopepuka koma chogwirizana ndi kukhumudwa. Kuponda pa Lego kumadziwika padziko lonse lapansi chifukwa cha zowawa zake, zomwe zimapangitsa kukhala njira yoseketsa yowonetsera kusakondwa.
7. Mphamvu Yamachiritso Yanthawi: Mawu Oyambirira: "Nthawi yokha ingachiritse mtima wake, monganso nthawi yokha yomwe ingachiritse manja ndi miyendo yake yosweka." - Abiti Piggy
Abiti Piggy amawonjezera nthabwala pamachiritso. Nthawi nthawi zambiri imawonedwa ngati yochiritsa kwambiri, osati mabala amalingaliro okha komanso kuvulala kwakuthupi. Fanizoli likuwonjezera kupotoza kwamasewera ku lingaliro lakuchira kuchisoni.
8. Mazira ndi Maubale: Mawu Oyambirira: "Ndimakonda maubwenzi anga monga momwe ndimakondera mazira anga - mosavuta." - Jared Kintz
Jared Kintz amajambula kufanana kosangalatsa pakati pa maubwenzi ndi mazira ophika. Kukonda maubwenzi omwe "ali osavuta" kumawonjezera kukhudza koseketsa, kutanthauza chikhumbo chofuna kuphweka komanso kumasuka muzolumikizana zachikondi.
9. Koloko Yachikondi Yazaka Zisanu ndi Ziwiri: Mawu Oyambirira: "Chikondi chimatenga pafupifupi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri. Umu ndi mmene zimatenga nthawi yaitali kuti maselo a m’thupi alowe m’malo mwake.” - Francoise Sagan
Francoise Sagan amabweretsa kupotoza kwasayansi pa lingaliro la nthawi yachikondi. Malinga ndi mawu awa, chikondi akuti chimatenga pafupifupi zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, kugwirizana ndi nthawi yomwe imatengera kuti maselo amthupi apangidwenso. Ndikawonedwe kokayikitsa pa utali wa moyo wa chikondi.
10. Kusintha Misozi Kukhala Kumwetulira: Mawu Oyambirira: "Musalire chifukwa zatha. Nyetulirani chifukwa iyeyo ndiye vuto la munthu wina.”
Kusweka kungakhale kokhudza mtima, koma mawu awa amalimbikitsa kusintha kwa malingaliro. M’malo mongoganizira za kutha kwa chibwenzicho, khazikani mtima pansi podziwa kuti amene akuyambitsa misozi tsopano ndi amene akukhudzidwa ndi munthu wina.
11. Kubweza Ubale Mmbuyo: Mawu Oyambirira: "Tiyenera kutengera ubale wathu pamlingo wakale."
Mawu oseketsa awa akuwonetsa njira yapadera yamaubwenzi. M'malo mopita patsogolo, wokamba nkhaniyo akuganiza zobwerera m'mbuyo mu chiyanjano, ndikuwonjezera kusinthasintha kwamasewera ku lingaliro la kutenga zinthu ku mlingo wotsatira.
12. Mkhalidwe Wachuma Wosweka: Mawu Oyambirira: "Ubale wathu uli ngati chuma changa: ndasokonekera."
Kuyerekeza ubale ndi mkhalidwe wachuma kukhala "wosweka" kumawonjezera kuseketsa ku zenizeni za kulumikizana kovutirapo. Ndi njira yopepuka yovomereza zovuta zomwe zili muubwenzi.
13. Kusweka mtima mu M'badwo Wamakono: Mawu Oyambirira: "Simunaswekapo mtima wanu mpaka mutatsekereza ndikuchotsa chilichonse mutatha kupatukana."
Munthawi yamalumikizidwe a digito, mawu awa amatenga zowawa zapadera za kusweka mtima kwamakono. Kutsekereza ndikuchotsa ziwonetsero zonse za ubale wam'mbuyomu pamapulatifomu ochezera a pa intaneti zimayimira gawo la digito lomwe likupita patsogolo, ndikupangitsa machiritso kukhala ovuta komanso ogwirizana.
Mawu Othawirako Chikondi Chikatha
- "Anthu omwe amachoka mwachangu sanafune kukhala." Maubwenzi ali ngati maulendo, ndipo si onse omwe timakumana nawo omwe amayenera kukhala gawo lokhazikika la moyo wathu. Amene amachoka mofulumira angakhale kuti sanafune kuchitapo kanthu poyamba.
- "Mitima imakhala yosatheka mpaka imakhala yosasweka." Izi Wizard of Oz ananena zimasonyeza kuti mitima yathu, ngakhale kuti ndi yofunika, ikhoza kukhala yofooka. Zikutanthauza kuti kugwira ntchito kwenikweni kwa mtima kwagona m’kukhoza kwake kulimbana ndi mavuto amene moyo umaubweretsera.
- "Osayika patsogolo munthu amene amakuwonani ngati njira." Nzeru za Mark Twain zimatilimbikitsa kuti tizidziona kuti ndife ofunika mu maubwenzi. Ndi chikumbutso kuti kufunika kwathu sikuyenera kusokonezedwa kwa munthu amene sabwezera mlingo womwewo wa kudzipereka.
- "Kuchokapo ukukondabe ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri." Kuvuta kwa kulolera kwinaku mukusungabe chikondi ndi nkhondo yodziwika bwino ya anthu. Mawu awa akuphatikiza zovuta zamalingaliro zothetsa chibwenzi ngakhale chikondi chitakhala chikuyenda.
- "Kupitilira: Zilembo zisanu ndi chimodzi, mawu awiri, zosavuta kunena, zovuta kufotokoza, zovuta kuchita." Kusiya ndi kupita patsogolo kungawoneke ngati kosavuta, koma zovuta zamalingaliro zomwe zimakhudzidwa zimapangitsa kuti ikhale ntchito yovuta. Mawu awa akufotokoza zovuta za ndondomekoyi.
- "Chikondi chilibe malire, koma maubwenzi alibe." Chikondi chopanda malire ndi mphamvu yamphamvu, komabe maubwenzi amafuna zambiri kuposa chikondi chokha. Mawu awa akutsindika kusiyana pakati pa chikondi chopanda malire ndi zochitika za mgwirizano wa anthu.
- "Chikondi chotentha kwambiri chimakhala ndi mapeto ozizira kwambiri." Mawu a Socrates akupereka mfundo yotsimikizirika yakuti kukhudzika mtima nthaŵi zina kungachititse munthu kufika pomaliza modzidzimutsa ndiponso mozizira.
- "Kusiya moyo wathu wokonzekera kwa iye amene akutiyembekezera." Kuzindikira kwa Joseph Campbell kumatilimbikitsa kukumbatira zosayembekezereka, kusiya malingaliro odziwikiratu kuti tipeze mwayi wopezeka mosayembekezereka womwe moyo uli nawo.
- "Kutseka kumabwera mukatseka chitseko." Mawu a Jacki Wells Wunderlin akugogomezera kufunikira kolamulira moyo wathu wamalingaliro potseka chaputala cha ubale wakale.
- “Nthawi zina mtima umafunika nthawi kuti uvomereze zimene maganizo akudziwa kale.” Povomereza kusiyana pakati pa malingaliro athu ndi malingaliro omveka, mawu awa akuwonetsa kulimbana kwamkati mkati mwa njira yakuchira.
- “Simungayambe mutu watsopano ngati mupitiriza kuŵerenga womaliza.” Kupita patsogolo kumafuna kusiya zakale. Mawu awa akugogomezera kufunikira kovomereza kusintha ndikuyang'ana zamtsogolo.
- "Mumatani ngati wosweka mtima alinso wokonda mtima?" Nkhani iyi yikutovwira kuti tighanaghanirepo vyakukhwaskana na kupenja chisangulusko kwa munthu uyo watipwetekeska mtima.
- “Mivi ya mtima wosweka ndi yakuthwa.” Fanizo la Cassandra Clare limafotokoza momveka bwino ululu waukulu womwe umatsagana ndi kusweka mtima.
- "Momwe amachoka amawulula zonse." Kuwona mwachidule kwa Rupi Kaur kukusonyeza kuti njira yonyamulira imapereka chidziwitso pazochitika zenizeni za ubale.
- "Kusiya kumakhala kovuta kwambiri mukazindikira kuti munthu wina wachita kale." Mawu a Lalla amatenga zovuta kuvomereza kutha kwa ubale, makamaka pamene kuzindikira kwa gulu la munthu wina kugunda kwambiri.
- "Ubale, monga shaki, uyenera kupita patsogolo nthawi zonse kuti upulumuke." Fanizoli lochokera kwa Annie Hall likuwonetsa maubale ngati magulu osunthika omwe amafunikira kukula kosalekeza kuti achite bwino.
- "Palibe chomwe chimapweteka kwambiri kuposa kukhumudwitsidwa ndi zomwe unkaganiza kuti sizingakuvulaze." Mawu a Gugu Mofokeng akusonyeza ululu wozama wa kuperekedwa kwa munthu yemwe timamukhulupirira kwambiri.
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Kusweka Mtima Kupyolera mu Nyimbo Zamafoni
- 'Good 4 u' wolemba Olivia Rodrigo - "Mukuchita bwino popanda ine, mwana / Monga munthu wodziwika bwino" Munyimbo iyi, Olivia Rodrigo akufotokoza kumverera kwa kuwona wina akuyenda mosavutikira ngati sakumva ululu uliwonse. Zili ngati kuonera sociopath amene sasonyeza kutengeka maganizo, kusiya woimbayo akudzimva kuti wasinthidwa ndi wosafunika.
- 'Slide Away' yolemba Miley Cyrus - "Kale, idapangidwira ife (Kwa ife) / Tidadzuka tsiku lina, idasanduka fumbi/ Mwana, tinapezedwa, koma tsopano tatayika / ndi nthawi yoti mupite." Miley Cyrus akuwonetsa ubale womwe udali wangwiro koma tsopano watha. Fanizo la chinthu chosanduka fumbi limagogomezera kusakhalitsa kwa chikondi. Ngakhale kuti adapezeka pachiyambi, banjali tsopano latayika, ndipo nthawi yakwana yovomereza mapeto.
- 'Misozi Imauma Payokha' wolemba Amy Winehouse - "Sindingathe kuseweranso ndekha / ndiyenera kungokhala mnzanga wapamtima" Amy Winehouse amavomereza kufunika komasuka ku chizungulire chachisoni. Amazindikira kufunika kodzikonda ndipo akuwonetsa kuti kusewera masewera amtundu womwewo sikuli koyenera. Ndi nthawi yoti mukhale bwenzi lanu lapamtima.
- 'Malamulo Atsopano' olembedwa ndi Dua Lipa - "Atatu: Osakhala bwenzi lake / Mukudziwa kuti mudzadzuka pabedi lake m'mawa" / Ndipo ngati muli pansi pake, simumamupeza. ” Dua Lipa amapereka malangizo othandiza pakupita patsogolo. Malamulowa amatsindika kufunika kokhazikitsa malire kuti asabwererenso m'machitidwe omwewo. Kudziwa kuti kukhala mabwenzi kapena kukhala pachibwenzi kungalepheretse kuchira ndikofunikira.
- 'Itanirani Dzina Langa' lolemba The Weeknd - "Kugwa chifukwa cha inu kunali kulakwitsa kwanga." The Weeknd ikufotokoza momveka bwino chisoni chifukwa chokondana. Kuvomereza kulakwitsa kumasonyeza kuzindikira kowawa, kutsindika zotsatira za ubale wolephera.
- 'Green Light' yolembedwa ndi Lorde - "Kodi zidakuchititsani mantha, momwe tidapsompsona titavina pamalo owala?" Lorde amaganizira za kukula kwa ubale wakale. Funso likuwonetsa kukhudzika ndi kusadziwikiratu kwa kulumikizanako, kusiya mpata wa chisangalalo ndi mantha.
- 'Popanda Ine' wolemba Halsey - "Kodi umasungulumwa, kuganiza kuti ungakhale opanda ine?" Halsey amakayikira chisankho cha wakale chokhala wopanda iye, akumakayikira ngati akumva kusungulumwa kapena kumva chisoni. Imafufuza zotsatira za kulekana ndi zotsatira zake pa onse awiri.
- 'Ndizikonde ndekha' wolemba Hailee Steinfeld - "Ndidzikonda ndekha, ayi, sindikufuna wina aliyense." Uthenga wopatsa mphamvu wa Hailee Steinfeld umatsindika kufunika kodzikonda. Mawu ake amalimbikitsa kudziimira payekha komanso kuzindikira kuti munthu angapeze chimwemwe mwa iye yekha.
- 'Thank U, Next' wolemba Ariana Grande - "Zikomo, lotsatira." Nyimbo ya Ariana Grande imakondwerera kusuntha kuchokera ku ubale wakale ndikuthokoza chifukwa cha maphunziro omwe mwaphunzira. Mawu oti "zikomo, kenako" amakhala mantra yakuvomereza zam'tsogolo.
- '10 Bands' wolemba Drake - "Ex wanga anandifunsa, 'Where you movin'?' Ndinati, 'Pitani ku zinthu zabwino.' Mawu a Drake akuwonetsa kukula ndi kupita patsogolo mutatha kupatukana. Kupita ku “zinthu zabwino” kumasonyeza kuti tikuyembekezera zinthu zabwino m’tsogolo.
- 'Sitibwereranso Pamodzi' wolemba Taylor Swift - "Sitinayambenso, kubwereranso limodzi." Chilengezo cholunjika cha Taylor Swift chikuwonetsa chisankho cholimba chothetsa ubalewo. Kubwerezabwereza kumatsindika kutha kwa kutha.
- 'Shout Out to My Ex' by Little Mix - "Munapangitsa mtima wanga kusweka ndipo zidandipangitsa kukhala yemwe ndili." Little Mix amavomereza lingaliro lakuti kusweka mtima kumapanga umunthu wa munthu. Kuvomereza kwa ululu wammbuyo kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kukula kwaumwini ndi kupirira.
- Tori Kelly, 'Tidayenera Kukhala Ife' - "Sizoyenera kuti ndimasamalabe ndipo ndikudabwa komwe muli usikuuno. Kuganiza kuti zitha kukhala zosiyana. Koma mwina tinaphonya.” Tori Kelly akufotokoza malingaliro okhalitsa ndi kupanda chilungamo kwa chisamaliro pambuyo pa kutha kwa banja. Kulingalira zomwe zikadakhala kumawonjezera kuzama kwaulendo wamalingaliro.
- Rhett Butler, Wapita Ndi Mphepo - "Kunena zoona, wokondedwa wanga, sindikudandaula." Mawu apamwambawa akuphatikiza lingaliro la kusayanjanitsika pambuyo pa kutha kwa banja. Yankho lolunjika la Rhett Butler limatanthauza kusagwirizana kwathunthu ndi ubale wakale.
Kulimbikitsa Mauthenga Otha Kutha
Kusweka kungakhale kovuta, koma kumabweretsanso maphunziro ofunika. Nawa mawu osavuta otha kukuthandizani kuti mumvetsetse ndikudutsamo molimba mtima:
- Kusiya Kupita: Ngati wina wasankha kusiya moyo wanu, zingakhale bwino kumusiya. Ndizovuta, koma zitha kukhala zabwino kwa nonse.
- Kudziona Wofunika: Kukhala wosakwatiwa kuli bwino, makamaka ngati kumatanthauza kusunga ulemu wako m’malo mosintha kuti wina akuvomereze.
- Dziwani Kufunika Kwanu: Musaiwale kuti ndinu wofunika bwanji, ngakhale wina asakuoneni.
- Phunzirani ndi Kupitilira: Kugwiritsitsa cholakwika chifukwa chakuti mwataya nthawi sikopindulitsa. Phunzirani kwa izo ndi kupita patsogolo.
- Madalitso Odzibisa: Nthawi zina, kusudzulana kungakhale chinthu chabwino pobisala, kukuthandizani kuzindikira kuti muli bwino popanda munthuyo.
- Kukula Kupyolera mu Zowawa: Kusweka mtima kungakhale kowawa, koma kungakuthandizeninso kuona zinthu bwino ndikukula monga munthu.
- Landirani Zomwe Muli Nazo: Muziganizira kwambiri zimene muli nazo panopa komanso zimene zikubwera m’tsogolo, m’malo momangoganizira zakale.
- Mphamvu Kupyolera mu Mavuto: Ululu ukhoza kukupangani kukhala wamphamvu, mantha angakupangitseni kukhala wolimba mtima, ndipo kusweka mtima kungakupangitseni kukhala wanzeru.
- Kudzikonda: Ndikofunikira kudzimva kukhala wofunika tsiku ndi tsiku osati kukhazikika pa zinthu zochepa zomwe zikuyenera.
- Silver Linings: Nthawi zina, zinthu zabwino zimasokonekera kuti zinthu zabwino zibwere pamodzi mtsogolo.
- Kudziimira paokha: Kukhala wosakwatiwa kumatanthauza kuti pali mavuto ochepa okhudzana ndi ubale.
- Khalani ndi Moyo Kanthawi: Muziganizira kwambiri kusangalala lero m’malo momangoganizira zimene zapita.
- Kuvomereza ndi Chikhulupiriro: Vomerezani zomwe zachitika, siyani zakale, ndipo khulupirirani tsogolo labwino.
- Zoyambira Zatsopano: Kuyambiranso kungakhale kowopsa, koma ndi mwayi wopanga moyo womwe mukufuna.
- Siyani Zakale: Yang'anani kutsogolo ku zomwe zili mtsogolo, kusiya kumbuyo zodandaula kapena chisoni.
- Sangalalani ndi Zokumbukira: M’malo mokhumudwa kuti zinazake zatha, muziyamikira kuti zachitika.
- Kudzitsimikizira: Kupeza chidaliro ndi mphamvu mwa inu nokha ndikomphamvu komanso kopatsa mphamvu.
- Phunzirani ndi Kukula: Chochitika chilichonse, ngakhale chokhumudwitsa, chingakuphunzitseni chinthu chamtengo wapatali.
- Kupita Patsogolo: Osabwerera ku zomwe zinakupwetekani. Pitirizani kupita patsogolo ku zinthu zabwino.
- Kukwanira: Kuti mupeze chikondi chenicheni, choyamba muyenera kukhala wathunthu mwa inu nokha.
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